If you don’t understand why I put my daughter before everything, then you need to get out of my life.
I will do anything for her; her well-being and future is all I care about. I have to follow where the money goes in order for me to provide for her and give her so many things I never had.
It’s almost time to leave.
I respect and understand that everyone has different parenting styles but what I don’t respect is when others try to parent my daughter. She is not your child so you have no right to discipline or raise her the way that you want. I just don’t understand why people think it’s okay to do what they do like that. I also do not need parent skills being shoved down my throat. I’ve been complimented many times on my parenting skills and how I’ve raised my daughter. I don’t need you to tell me what to do especially when I see your kid doing shit he’s not suppose to do or when you don’t even have a freaking kid or certificate saying you’re certified to nanny and etc. I just don’t condone that kind of bullshit. I’m sick of it. I no longer want anyone to care for my daughter without me or her father present. I can’t stand hearing about what people are feeding my 6 month old baby. Does cheetos, frosting, and ice cream sound like anything an infant is suppose to eat?!?! Fuck no.
How many girls do YOU know that can say that they’ve got a loving husband with a stable job that pays 2 times as what YOU make, has a stable job of her own, can support each other and their daughter, and bought their OWN brand new car at the age of 18?!
Not many that you can think of can you?!
So how about YOU try being this fucking responsible, but obviously you can’t because you can’t even fathom the responsibility that mothers my age face on a daily basis.
Fuck assholes like you that think you’re SO much better than us, we make a living and support our family whereas you spoiled princesses get whatever you want from your parents.
Back off, once you get pregnant, no one’s going to help you.
I’ve got no time for school. I just wanna go to school, learn everything there is to know about cosmetology, get all my certificates, and start my damn business. But I can’t, because I love the job that I do now. But with my work hours, there’s no room for school; the hours are PTEC are only from 7am-12:15pm. But that means I’ll be home for about an hour or 2 then off to work, and won’t be home til at least 10pm or 12am. And up at 6am all over again.
I won’t be home much to see my baby, and there’s no one that could watch her EVERY SINGLE NIGHT ya know?
Ugh it’s just dumb that everyone works nights.
doesn’t mean you take care of yourself.
If you’re still splurging all the time and have no money left for NECESSITIES, then obviously you’re just wasting money.
Just because you can buy your own alcohol and cigarettes now, doesn’t mean that you’re taking care of your own.
You don’t know taking care of your own, until you really are taking care of your own.
Cost of living as a family totals to about 5-10,000 a month. You don’t think about it much because it hasn’t happened to you yet; but trust me, you can’t raise a family off your minimum wage hunny.
Even though I live with my parents, me and my husband’s cost of living is still about 2000 a month. These are the things you’ll be figuring out in the future.
We pay for auto insurance, health insurance, car payments, ring payments, medical bills, rent, and phone bill. That doesn’t even include groceries, leisurely money, gas, laundry, money to put into savings, and saving up for our wedding.
You think you got bills to pay? You think you’re too broke for things? Try raising a family, booboo.
You guys don’t realize how much money they REALLY put into raising you. You think you’re allowance is shiet when really they’re giving you 1000’s but it’s all going into bills and food to keep you alive and sheltered. Don’t complain. Don’t kid yourself into thinking they have done nothing for you. Because if they really did nothing for you, they would’ve left you out on the street A LONG ASS TIME AGO.
You’re parents also pay for: property tax, mortgage(more than rent; but if they rent, then they pay renter’s insurance), electricity, water/sewage, garbage, credit card bills, cable/internet, etc. Trust me, add all that shiet up and it’ll be at least 5000 with your lazy asses always leaving all the lights, tv’s, and computer’s on.
Give props to your parents for all the money they put into you.
25 gifts and $300 later. Gotta love the family! <3
No one is as important to me as she is<3
If you can’t take care of an animal, how can you take care of a child?
If you can’t take care of your room, how can you take care of a home?
If you can’t take care of yourself, how is taking care of anyone else even a possibility?